Readers, do you know why this household of Akane and her yams contains so much happiness? (From reading this blog possibly you think, "It's because of so much romance, Akane!" But no, because sometimes everyone here is lazy and days go by without actions of romance. Passives of romance still exist, and are helpful for happiness-making, but more is needed than just that!)
I will tell you the secret: there is happiness because we choose to have it.
"Akane!" you say. "It's too simplistic! You are huckstering us with ideas that lack adequacy!"
Untrue, readers!
No matter how much romance exists in a household, no matter how much love, or how much entertainment, there can only be happiness if the householders choose it. There's no guaranteeing a feeling so contented just from romance or love or entertainment -- those are only Step A. Without Step B (choose to be happy!), Step A will never arrive at Step C (happiness!) ... strange but true.
Also true is this: so-so amounts of romance and love and entertainment are plenty for choosing happiness. You just have to do it!
And now ...
Ultimate Secret!!!
This happiness-choosing -- it's a practice-able skill! The more you chose it, the easier and easier choice happiness becomes. Eventually, even the smallest of romance and love and entertainments make the choice available.
But you have to always remember, or you stop doing it, and all your practice escapes like balloon air when you let the balloon go.
Try it!
I promise there is no hucksterism here!
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